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Throw Gifts in the Pot

What are your gifts?

Unwrap Your Gifts

1 Cor. 12:7

“Each person is given something to do
that shows who God is:
Everyone gets in on it,
everyone benefits.

What were you given?
Wouldn’t it be fun to have your family and friends
tell you what gifts they see working in you?
I had that unique experience yesterday
at a meeting of our church’s elder board
(The Session).

Look up for your purpose!

The “gift” I most align myself with is:
“Intercessor.”
My daily prayer time and the lists of people
I pray for daily are an integral part of my life.
I am grateful God gave me the gift of praying for others.

In today’s devotional by Bob Goff,
he dealt with this subject.
Quoting 1Cor. 12:7, he went on to say,

” God has created us ro come together
and form a beautiful community
that highlights what we each
have been given and can contribute.”

Using the familiar story of Stone Soup,
Bob Goff wrote,
“You know where this story ends already:
the soup becomes a delicious simmering pot
made up of everyone’s contributions…
We all need to throw in what we’ve got
and it will be enough.”

Photo by Ella Olsson on Pexels.com

What other gift attributes did my friends identify for me?
writing
bedrock
firecracker
cooking
music
(and as mentioned:)
prayer warrior

Of course, the one that surprised me the most
was “Firecracker.”
Is that a gift?
Should I associate that with
being explosive
or
being a sparkler?
There are many ways to define our gifts,
aren’t there?
What’s yours?
Ask a friend. Bob Goff ended his
devotional in “Catching Whimsy”
with this faith step:

Ask the people around you.
“What are you good at?
What lights you up
and makes you spring out of bed?”

Here are the gifts my friends identified
in each of my fellow church elders’ lives.
For privacy’s sake,
I will identify them only by their initials

  • PC
    patience, music, steadiness, kindness, calmness, humor
  • CD
    steadfastness, empathy, compassion, devotion, humor, determination
  • BM
    infectiousness, enthusiasm, teaching, discernment, tolerance, creativity
  • BK
    creativity, enthusiasm, caring, loving, growing, willingness
  • RE
    cheerfulness, steadfastness, deep faith, evenness
  • MK
    dependability, thoughtfulness, initiative, wisdom, calmness, humor
  • SH
    faithfulness, dependability, devotion. willingness, generosity, commitment, obedience

We began our Session meeting in prayer
with this scripture as our guiding principle:
1 Cor. 12:1 paraphrased
“Don’t be ignorant friends.
A variety of gifts are given-
We all are made to drink in One Spirit.”

We can (or can we?)
control how others see us.
Would I have liked others to see in me
dependability, thoughtfulness, initiative, wisdom?
Of course!
Those weren’t mentioned.
What can I do about it?

Live mindfully.
Love outlandishly.
Purpose my life to
“Show who God is.”

Are you with me?
Throw your gifts in the pot,
and let’s make Stone Soup
into God’s Love Soup.

Hugs,
JanBeek

Let Love In

Family sends love out and…
… we hug love in. We follow along for a lifetime!

See that cute little boy up there with his loving mom & dad? Well, look at him now!

That’s Liam, our grand-nephew, who just graduated from high school.
We are overjoyed that we were able to travel to Pittsburgh, PA to help Liam celebrate.
While there, we got to attend a couple of Liam’s hockey matches.

My niece, Jodie (Liam’s mom) and her hubby, Bill, have a gorgeous 1790’s BarN. They held a graduation party for Liam there. About 200 attended!!

Uncle Bob & I are mighty proud of this successful young man!

While in PA we also got to visit the National Aviary. What a beautiful, elegant collection of birds!

Meantime back at home, our pup, Kenny, enjoyed playmates and our son, Ty in CA, counted down days til retirement.

Kenny’s happy we’re home!
Ty’s ready for the next chapter in his life.
I pray that Ty & his wife, Monika, can find a way to go visit his sister in Switzerland. DeAna would love it!
Hey, Bro, come visit us! Put it on your 2026 calendar!

Let Love In!!!

Hugs await you wherever you go!

I hope your June started out as beautifully as ours!

Enjoy!

Let Love In!

Hugs,

JanBeek

Thank you, Jodie & Bill, for your love and generosity.

Positive Impact

Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.

Kenny came and filled all the empty places in our home and hearts! Dogs do that!
Neighbors/friends step up and fill our lives with love
Bonus daughters reach out and help make each day brighter
Sweet daughter, De, makes each day happier
Terrific Ty, super son, positively impacts us and countless others
Our pastor and our God keep us grounded in love
These and countless others are daily gifts that impact my life. How can I choose just one?
Like the flowers in my garden, each loved one impacts my life daily by adding beauty and support.

Who or what impacts your life … or has left a permanent impression? I know you also feel blessed. Life is a gift… and so are you!

God bless you!

Love, JanBeek

Love Our Poet Laureate

Montana Poet Laureate Chris La Tray at the Elling House Arts and Humanities Center in Virginia City tonight, Saturday, April 27th at 7:00 PM. I will not be able to attend, but I will be with him in spirit. He is a gifted man. I love his poetry.

La Tray, the Montana Poet Laureate since 2023, is a Métis storyteller and a member of the Little Shell Tribe of Chippewa Indians. He’s the author of ‘One-Sentence Journal: Short Poems and Essays from the World at Large’ and‘Becoming Little Shell’. Why don’t you Google those books… or find ’em on Amazon. You’ll love ’em just as I do!

Chris sees poetry like the spiritual life of an Anishinaabe person: if you live an Anishinaabe life, focusing on the seven guiding principles of the Seven Grandfather teachings – Humility, Courage, Honesty, Wisdom, Truth, Respect, and Love – then every step you take becomes a prayer.

If you approach poetry in a similar way, seeing that everything that happens can be seen as a poem, and that every moment in life is an experience worth paying close attention to, then every step you take becomes a poem. Whether you write it down or share it with others, poetry becomes another way to tell and share stories. La Tray’s programs remind people that their stories matter, that they’re the only ones who can tell them right, and that poetry, no matter how you define it, is a beautiful way to do so.

Chris La Tray encourages us to focus on
Humility,
Courage,
Honesty,
Wisdom,
Truth,
Respect,
and Love.

Let’s do!

Humility sits in humble silence
While courage asks us to stand
And honesty demands
We approach life with wisdom

Truth is hard to find
In a world that lacks respect
The only way to discover it
Is with love, I suspect.

Reach out in love
Tell others how you feel
We know the world needs
More love. Make it real!

It was true in 1966 when Dionne sang this song…
And it’s even more true today.
Sing along with Dionne…
… and then go out and spread some love.

We all need it!

Hugs,
JanBeek

Sharing “The Best of March”

Happy Monday

Ah yes, April showers bring May flowers.

How about March showers
and hail and snow and rain
bring April’s flowers?

April is one of my favorite months.
Our family has so many April birthdays!
What was going on 9 months ago?

This month of March was filled with challenges.
March madness included our granddaughter, Faith,
who fell ill while vacationing in Switzerland.
“I’m a million times better” she says…
“today compared to yesterday.”
Yay! Answered prayers 👌🏽❤️🙏🏽

That’s my dear granddaughter in a hospital in Switzerland.
Please pray for Faithy…
She’s moving out of ICU and into a regular hospital room today.
Looking forward to continuing her vacation
with hubby, Kyle, 3-yr-old Mable, and Kyle’s mother.
They hope to visit our daughter, Faith’s Aunt DeDe, this week.
They currently are about 4 1/2 hours away.
God is so good!
This is an answer to more than I dared hope for!
I just was asking God to heal her enough
so she could safely fly home to California.
Auntie De will be so happy to see them
and meet Mable for the first time.

God is amazing, isn’t He?
He hears our prayers
and answers with even more than we dare ask!

Here’s my daughter, DeDe, in Switzerland.

I’ve always believed Mark 11:24

In it, we are reassured that God answers our prayers:
24 “Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer,
believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”

But I didn’t ask God for Faith and family
to be able to resume their vacation.
I thought that would be asking too much.
I just wanted her to get well and be able to travel home safely.
Instead, Faith told us today that she expects
to be able to resume her Swiss travels.
Amazing!!

2 Corinthians 9:8 ESV

“And God is able to make all grace abound to you,
so that having all sufficiency in all things at all times,
you may abound in every good work.”

What have you asked God for recently?
Has He answered your prayer?


Have you ever asked for something
and been given more than you requested?

Tell me about it!

And have a Happy Monday
and a Blessed April!

Love,
JanBeek

Pray for Others

Prayer is Powerful

In the midst of the storm
Of life’s uncertainties
There is a comforter
Always available

Any time is the right time

When your heart is tuned
To the One who always hears,
You never need to feel alone
Or helpless or powerless

Have faith!

I pray in the morning
I pray at noon
I pray all day long
The answers come soon

Can you feel them?
Pause with me.
Pray. 🙏🏽

Ah, I feel ‘em!
Love across the miles.
Love back atcha.
Embeace the comfort.

Hugs,
JanBeek

We’re All a Little Irish today

TooraLooraLoora
TooraLooraLie
TooraLooraLoora
It’s an Irish Lullaby!

(Sing with me!)

Sing along!
Here’s to the wearing of the green!

Over in Killarney…

And here in Ennis, MT

Love my little Irish gnome!

Meanwhile in Maryland, Laina & Katy really get into the spirit!
Hope your day was a fun one, too.

Oh, and by the way,
here’s an update on our new pup, Kenny,
the 7 month old Boston terror!

He’s settling in well! Learning each other’s language. Tough at first. Much better now!

Yay!

Did I show you this earlier?
It was his playday with Livvy.
So good for them both!

Life is good in this neck of the woods-
in spite of waking up to more snow this morning!
Are you as ready for springtime as I am?

I miss all that color! Come springtime, come!
Yes, the snow wet the green shoots where crocus & daffodil are trying to pop up. Hang in there, flowers! The sun WILL shine soon!
Have faith! Spring is on its way!

Meantime, sing along…

Nothing like a good ole Irish jig!

Love,

JanBeek

Yup, that’s me!
Several decades ago…
But today I am wearing that same green jacket!
Do you have “old clothes” that are too good to throw away?
Hah! Kinda like me…

Our Friends: Canadians

My prayer:
Both countries: strong and free!

It breaks my heart that the song below was created … and the divisiveness that prompted the song. I pray for our return to camaraderie and mutual support. Meantime, maybe you will find some humor in the lyrics… a friend of mine did. What do you think?

God is in charge. I have to believe that.
God is in control. I have to believe some good will come of this.
God is in control. But He does give humans free will.
Lord, help us!

Pray with me.
“Lord, please give our world leaders wisdom and diplomacy and intelligence.”
Amen

Love,
JanBeek

What’s Your 1st Sentence?

Today’s prompt was:
You’re writing your autobiography.
What’s your opening sentence?

“I want to die with all my marbles intact!”

Intact and sparkling!

Yesterday my friend, Keri, brought her one-year-old Boston Terrier over for a playday with our pup, Kenny. Watching those two play, I knew for a fact that play is an essential part of life. If I want to keep all my marbles right up to the last day of my life on earth, I have to do as Kenny and Livvy did: play together and refresh together, too!

Play and refresh

What else is important if I want to keep all my marbles?
Reading! Learning!!

While the pups were playing,
Keri and I chatted about our lives.
She shared that she has a 93 year-old dad.
He is a voracious reader.
He’s got all his marbles intact and shining!
What a gift, huh?
That’s what that CJ Box book is: a gift!
We received it in the mail yesterday
from our Bonus daughter, Elaina.
My husband, Bob, age 86, also is
a voracious reader.
He’s read every CJ Box book there is…
and this is the latest. Just out! Just here.
Bob can hardly wait to dig into it!

What else is important for a long, sparkling, coherent life?

Stay connected!
Connected to what?

If you know me,
you know I was gonna
take this message to God,
His Word, and the Holy Spirit!
Yup, therein lies the secret…
Make sure it’s not a well-kept one!!

Share your love…
Share God’s love in you…
Share the Holy Spirit’s Wisdom in you…
PLAY, REFRESH, READ, STAY CONNECTED.

May you LIVE LONG
and
Keep all your marbles intact and sparkling!

What would the first sentence of your autobiography say?

Love,
JanBeek