Dr. Jimmy Walters
has been posting a 30 day series on healing.
Today his topic was “Listening.”
Check it out by clicking n “Day 26” below:
Dr. Jimmy said in his article,
“… listening can inform us,
as we grow
and as we learn.”
My daughter DeAna, and her husband, Andre’ (pictured above and below here) are celebrating their 33rd anniversary today. It has been an interesting journey for them. They married when she was not quite 20 and he was 24. Young and naive, coming from a world apart – she a California girl and he a fun-loving guy who’d been working as a chef in Switzerland.
DeAna wore my dress and Andre’ wore Bob’s red bow tie and cummerbund as they were married in the same University of the Pacific chapel where Bob & I were wed 25 years earlier.
They remained in California four more years while De finished college, but eventually, they moved back to Andre’s hometown in Sierre, Switzerland.
He missed his mountains, his family, his culture. I don’t blame him!!! De was pregnant with our first grandchild when they left. Talk about a difficult good-bye! But hey… Switzerland…. what a beautiful place to HAVE TO visit, huh?
Life was beautiful – but, oh so different – there.
Listening to Andre’s mom, Denise, was an important part of their marital success. As the years went by, DeAna and Andre’ grew in their ability to share their minds, let their dreams be known, and listen to one another.
Bob & I have been married 58 years, and we, too, are busy still learning to be better listeners. It’s a life-long process. But the effort is worth it. We, too, are happier now than ever.
Psalm 37:10-11 (MSG)
“The deeper your love, the higher it goes;
every cloud is a flag to your faithfulness.
Soar high in the skies, O God!
Cover the whole earth with Your glory!”
Today the skies revealed a slight rainbow arching the skies … look carefully:
As I stood on the porch after the rain, listening to the thunder in the hills, the robins chirped from their nest nearby and the doves flew back onto the roof to coo at one another. Listen! The earth is alive with God’s symphonies.
The rain returned – just light sprinkles, but the birds continued their songs.
Bob came out on the porch and said, “What’s for lunch?”
I responded with a shrug, “I don’t have anything planned.”
“How about a hamburger and huckleberry milkshake?” he asked.
Believe me, I listened, I heard, and … We were in the car in a jiffy.
The sign over Bob’s shoulder says,
“Without ICE CREAM, Life is Darkness and Chaos.”
Without good listening,
Without open sharing of dreams,
You’ll miss out on lots of hamburgers and milkshakes!
doesn’t that look like
“God’s Vision for Your Life”??
Listen for your Health!
Listen for your Happiness.
Don’t miss out!
See ya tomorrow…
Love and Hugs
Comments on: "Listen and Grow" (6)
De looks so much like you, Jan, and you both look fabulous in that stunning dress! Precious memories. x 💖
Thank you, Lesley!
Awwww momma 🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️ I love you 🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️🥰❤️
Two couples who are examples to us all.
Jan, thanks for sharing so much of your family’s witness about listening and maturing as husband and wife. Seeing the yummy picture of the burger was almost too much to bear. Bob’s craving has been one of mine the past few days . . . savoring a burger (even if it is a drive-thru)!
Mmm! I totally understand. A good burger 🍔 at least once every month or so is important for your mental health!!