Loving One Another


Thanks for joining me on our A-Z journey
to find ways to
Add More Meaning
and
Discover Clearer Purpose
in Life

Today we’ll explore the letters “O” and “P”
Optimism and Positivity

Optimism Brings Positivity!

Or, is it the other way around?

Does Positivity bring Optimism?

I couldn’t separate these two!

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Like so many of the concepts we’ve explored in this A-Z series, these two (optimism and positivity) go hand-in-hand.

When you live with the “Positivity Potion” in your life, optimism is a natural by-product!

I am reminded of a story I have read more than once in various places. It’s about an elderly lady who is being guided down the hallway of a nursing home. The CNA (certified nurse’s assistant) says to her, “Your room is at the end of this hallway.”

The lady smiles at her and cheerfully exclaims, “I like it!”

“But you haven’t seen it yet,” the CNA responds.

“Oh, I know, but I like it.”

This lady had more than a sprinkle of acceptance.
She had more than a hint of gratitude.
She lived with more than a feather of hope.
Her positivity potion was overflowing with optimism about life and her future.

She is someone you’d like to have as your roommate
should the day come when you need to move into a nursing home.

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These items of advice don’t suddenly become obsolete when you’re retired and don’t have to get up and go to a job every day. In fact, as a person who is aging (aren’t we all?), it is more important than ever that I remain positive in order to be happy.

When I was recovering from a knee replacement and struggling with more pain than I anticipated in the recuperation process, it was more important than ever that I remain positive, keep hope for a better outcome ahead, and work hard to remain happy.

Challenges keep coming.
Life is not a bed of feathery frolicking through the tulips!
It is more important than ever that I continue to work hard
(find meaningful work to maintain a sense of purpose),
and give my days reason to hope.
Not just a feather of hope,
but the whole chirping, red-breasted robin!

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Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com

I never can let myself become so rigid, and set in my ways, and sure of my own way of doing things that I grow beyond the need to accept criticism. I must always keep learning. With a positive attitude, I can thank the one who offers the criticism –  thank him or her for sharing an opinion with me – for caring enough to speak their words of correction. Take it in – try the shoe on and see if it fits! And weigh its merits. Keep learning and looking for ways to improve. Always!

With an attitude of optimism
and a demeanor of positivity,
I will attract happy, warm, and generous people.
And I will be one of them.

What better way to approach my 80th birthday – and the days ahead?

 

Bring Optimism and Positivity with you into your tomorrows!

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Comments on: "Optimism Brings Positivity" (12)

  1. Such a joy-filled post. God bless your day and upcoming birthday!

    • Thanks! The birthday’s not til July, but we’re already planning a neighborhood wing-ding to celebrate! Tomorrow is my granddaughter’s 25th and my great-grandson will be 2 on the 12th of this month. Then, next month, he will have a little sister! So, we have lots to be grateful for. Life is a blessing. I have many reasons to be joy-filled. I hope you’re feeling blessed, too! Thanks for visiting and leaving a positive response! ❤

  2. So much goodness! Enjoy it all!

  3. mskarenkory said:

    If I knew I could not fail, I would finish the children’s book I started a few years ago. Once we’re settled, I might dust it off and have at it again. Do you know anything about how to get published?

    • Try “Blurb” for self-publishing. Do you have an illustrator for it yet? I have a few blogging friends who illustrate children’s books. They’d be helpful in the getting it to market process. Thank, Karen, for visiting and commenting. You’re the best!

  4. Sunny De said:

    When I click on like it doesn’t work anymore! Just know that I’m reading ALL your blogs, momma! 😘☀️😘❤️😘💕

    Have a great day!

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  5. Jan If you could bottle your joy. You are a continued inspiration.

  6. The lady in the nursing home is a wonderful example – and I can certainly identify with the shock of how long the pain continues after knee surgery

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