Are you afraid of death?
“Nope!” my friend answered with assurance.
Then yesterday, I had an ultrasound. The radiologist not only took a million pictures, but then she called in her senior partner and asked for her assistance.
Oh my! What were they seeing? How many angles did the image need?
By the way, it was my kidneys and bladder areas, not something less complicated – like my hand.
Later in the afternoon I received a call from the medical center. It didn’t surprise me when they asked me to schedule an appointment ASAP for an MRI. They needed a more definitive picture of whatever is in there. Something that’s not supposed to be, of course.
Would your mind do what my mind did under the circumstances?
Would the big “C” word enter your mind? And would you contemplate your own mortality?
I did – and I am!
When I go to the medical center tomorrow and they receive the MRI results, and they say, “Your days are numbered. You are full of cancer,” would I panic?
Why not? Well, all our days are numbered, aren’t they? Nobody’s going to get out of here alive.
But, would I like to live a healthy 100 years
and then die peacefully and unexpectedly
in my sleep one night?
But, what are the chances? Pretty slim!
However, in today’s world, a person who has enjoyed good health and is living a healthy life style should expect to live at least into his/her 80’s. Don’t you agree?
After all, my parents lived into their late 80s, and so did both my in-laws. Genetically and socially, I expect to do the same. Wait, though… I’m not quite 80 yet.
How would I feel about an eminent death sentence?
How would YOU feel? Have you faced such a challenge and overcome it?
My husband, Bob, was diagnosed with prostate cancer about a dozen years ago.
First step: We called my older cousin who is a Prostate Cancer Survivor “Poster Child.” We received tips from him. He recommended we get on line and learn everything we could about the disease and the treatment options. Go to renowned specialists (he named two). Get a second opinion. Keep a positive outlook. Pray. Share. Ask friends and family to pray with you. Seek professional advice. Research your options. Be your own best advocate. Remain positive.”
Second step: We did all those things, and Bob chose cryotherapy – he had his prostate frozen – and he is “in remission.” Cancer free – and living the “Golden Years” with me!
If I should learn that my days are short, I would miss my loved ones here on earth, of course. But would I be afraid of dying? As my friend said when I asked him that question, I can emphatically say, “Nope!”
I know where I’m going. I know my Redeemer lives and has a place reserved for me in Heaven. And, I pray you BELIEVE, too. Then, we can be assured we will see each other in Paradise and we will enjoy eternal joy together.
See you there someday …
Hopefully not too soon!
Comments on: "Fear of Death?" (11)
I pray you receive a good report.
Thank you, Dorothy. <3
Surrounding you with warrior prayers. Need to make a phone date soon. I know where I am going too. Love from a sister in Christ.
Thank you so much! I certainly appreciate your prayers. Let’s talk.Call me when you get a chance! (406)599-9678
MOM!!!!! How scary!!!! I am cranking up the prayers for your scan to be normal and for the doctors to find absolutely NOTHING and if they DO find something that it be benign and easily removed. You got this, momma. I love you!!!!!!
Thank you, DeDe. I will stay in touch. Have no fear!
I am hoping that your MRI scan result is clear and normal. You are in my thoughts, my heart and my prayers. Lots of love. 💖
Thank you! I appreciate your thoughts and prayers and love being tucked in your heart! What a nice place to be! <3
You are approaching this crisis with admirable, philosophical, humour. I think we are roughly contemporary. As for me I don’t fear death, I’d just like to defer it a bit
Yup, me, too, Derrick! Thanks for commenting and understanding. <3