These two little darlings exude happiness, confidence, pure joy…
I can’t help but smile when I look at them. (I bet you’re smiling, too)
I’ve been saving this photo for just the right time.
Today is it!
In my devotionals this morning, I read an article by Brenda Wade, Ph.D.
Brenda is based in San Francisco. She hosts a radio talk show, “Modern Love”
and she facilitates trainings on relationships. Her article in the Jan.-Feb. Unity magazine,
Daily Word, is titled, “Overcoming Racism, Healing from Shame, Opening to Love.”
“The love and peace we want to know in our lives begins inside of us,” Dr. Wade wrote.
“This has been on my mind lately as I’ve dug deeply into … my work, leading anti-racism trainings.”
In her article, she went on to describe an incident in her life that deeply affected her self-image. She was only 6-years-old.
“One day at school, my classmates and I were told to line up two by two and hold hands. I extended my hand, but the girl standing next to me refused to take it. ‘I can’t hold your hand,’ she said matter-of-factly. ‘My mother told me your skin is brown because it’s dirty.’ I was confused. My skin was brown, but it certainly was not dirty.”
It took years for that little 6-year-old to deal with the hurt. Her young brain just didn’t understand. She felt immediate rejection, pain, and the sting of shame. The notion that there was something wrong with her kept her from telling the teacher or her parents. She just carried that message of inferiority with her and it was reinforced by a high school principal who ignorantly expressed surprise that someone of her color could score so high on her tests.
It was further reinforced in graduate school when a department chair “was more interested in my race than my qualifications” – and as an adult when “a landlord candidly admitted he was denying me housing because I am African American.”
How does someone overcome
such prejudicial treatment
and regain the confidence
that ALL PEOPLE deserve?
That is the question Dr. Walker
deals with in her profession.
She conquered it in her own life with
“years of psychological work,
spiritual practice,
self-care, and healing.”
Dr. Brenda Wade wrote,
“When we feel too hurt or afraid
to let ourselves out,
it becomes impossible
to let others in.”
Embrace the confidence
that there is
hope and a future
and a return of self-confidence
when self-insight
and self-love
can be applied.
The pain of those early wounds go deep.
We know that
we ALL have a responsibility
to respond to one another in love,
with compassion and respect,
and to stand together hand-in-hand
to obliterate oppression and prejudice.
Embrace that future
with
confidence and determination!
Pastoral Prayer
Yesterday during our ZOOM church service, our pastor, Steve Hundley, offered the following prayer. It is just what I needed to hear as I embrace with confidence the power of prayer and the belief that God hears, God cares, and God answers us when we cry out to Him:
“How many times in Your earthly ministry, O Lord, did You touch the fevered brows of those who were ill; or, the trembling hands of those who were afraid; or, the sagging shoulders of those bowed down in grief?
Walk among us now, we pray, and touch us for the same reasons…
* Let those who are ill in body or in spirit feel the power of Your presence, and sense that healing is taking place.
* We pray for all those sick with COVID throughout our nation and world…
* Give those who are constricted by fears and anxieties a feeling of relaxation in Your grace.
* Let peace flow over them like a river, carrying them away from self-preoccupation and into the openness of love and sharing…
* Pour out the hope of Your resurrection upon those who are grieving the loss of loved ones…
* May they walk the Emmaus Road with You and feel their hearts strangely and wonderfully warmed…
* In the chaos and uncertainty of the coming weeks and months, give us confidence of faith in knowing that You are Lord of our lives and Lord of this world, and that You are working Your purpose out…
* As Your children, O Lord, You know how often we recoil from those things that should not frighten or upset us in this world. Comfort us with Your presence, and teach us so to live within the disciplines of faith, so that, we are never without You.”
Amen
Embrace with Confidence,
my friends,
the knowledge that you
regard all God’s Children as equals…
and determine never to inflict on anyone
the pain of rejection
or the sting of shame.
As God’s children…
Let us live as One.
Let’s just walk around makng the world a better place!
Embrace Confidence!
Hugs to you.
See ya tomorrow.
JanBeek
Comments on: "Embrace Confidence" (16)
Thank you Jan. Wonderful blog!
Thank you for visiting and taking time to write a response, Fran. I appreciate you! <3
This post is oozing with love and truth. It brought tears to my eyes. Those two girls are simply beautiful. Love, love, love.
Thank you, {{{Karla}}} – I am so glad it spoke to you. I agree, those girls are “simply beautiful.” <3 <3
Steve’s prayer was beautiful!🙏🏻❤️
I thought so, too. Thanks, Susan. <3
Thank you for this Jan! I it is much needed! We have no idea how much trauma was passed on down the line over the past years of racism!
Great words, it starts with each of us!
Yes, it does. {{{Dwight}}} … we each need to search our own souls for those seeds of discrimination that may reside there – and eradicate them. Creating a more loving world begins within. <3
Yes!
Such an important quality that most of us have to learn regardless of race and culture – most importantly for who we are than for what we can do
You are so precious! Thank you, Derrick, for your lovely response.
Thank you, Jan, for a most wonderful post. Every bit of it is a lesson to me! 🙏🙌 xx
Bless you, {{{Lesley}}}, I am so glad it spoke to you. It came from my heart ❤️
I appreciate yor visit and taking time to comment, {{{Lesley}}} – Have a Wonderful Wednesday! <3
You too, Jan. I feel sad today after Captain Tom Moore’s death yesterday. 🙁
Captain Tom Moore’s death was a loss to our world.